THE WISDOM BEHIND THE BOUNDARIES SET BY ALLAH
- Category: Tafseer
A husband complained that he was always angry with his wife, and they continuously argued.…
There are so many such cases: If it is not the husband complaining of his wife, it is the wife complaining of her husband.In this case, having been informed of the weaknesses of his wife, which are common to other women as well, I said: ‘I agree with you that there are weaknesses in women. However, there are also weaknesses in men. …Moreover, your anger is for worldly reasons. You are cursing your wife and inviting that same curse upon yourself.’
I then explained to him: ‘When you curse your wife on her defiance, non-compliance or her indifference to your rights, then ALLAH TA’ALA'S AZAAB descends upon her. When that punishment reaches her, she will not be the only who will suffer. As her husband, you too suffer. If she is afflicted with illness or meets up with some accident, the burden of expense falls upon you, as the husband. You will have to take care of her, and will also find difficulty in that she will not be able to see to you and the children, and the maintenance of the home, etc.
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THE FOLLOWING LETTER IS POSTED AS RECEIVED (VERBATIM):
This is a letter written by Mufti Faisal (Darul Uloom Buffalo principal) to his family. Its not a public post or anything just something I was given permission to share and something extremely worth reading.
Assalmalykom my beloved family. You are all in my prayers and i humbly request to be in your prayers as well. Something has happened today that has disturbed me to the point that i cant stop thinking about anything else. My concern for my own well being as well as that of my family's well being has prompted me to share this concern so that we may all take heed and seek every form of protection possible in this regard. For those of you that may not know, darul uloom manages a qabrustaan. And today we had buried its 28th resident.