MORAL DEGENERATION
MORAL DEGENERATION
In these times of moral degeneration when Muslims have largely adopted the libertine culture of the western kuffaar, the rulings of the Fuqaha regarding hijaab for the father-in-law and other relatives of a similar category have greater emphasis. In view of the preponderance of fisq and fujoor and weakness in the Imaan of people, and of sexual misconduct between men and their daughter-in-laws, men and their young stepmothers, men and their step-daughters etc., it is necessary that extreme caution be practiced. Women should not be in privacy with their fathersin-laws. They should maintain a respectable distance from them and not be free with them. Those who cast caution overboard and ignore the ruling of the authorities of the Shariah expose themselves to the snares of shaitaan and the nafs.
While the Shariah allows a woman to travel with a mahram (a male relative with whom marriage is not permissible), there are exceptions to this rule. If the mahram is not a pious and a conscientious person, a woman may not go on a journey in his company even if he happens to be her father or brother or son.
The purpose of a mahram is to ensure that the honour and Purdah of the woman are protected. If a mahram is to ensure that the honour and Purdah of the woman are protected. If a mahram is unable to fulfill this function or if he lacks sufficient piety or understanding of the incumbency of Hijaab, a woman may not travel with him. In reply to a question the following answer appears in Fataawa Rahimiyya:
“… The condition of the (the permissibility) of travelling with a mahram is that there should be no fear of fitnah (i.e. misconduct from the mahram). The mahram should be pious and steadfast on the Shariah. He should not be a faasiq. According to the Shariah it is not permissible (for a woman) to travel with a careless mahram. (citing from Shaami, Fataaqa Rahimiyya continues) : ‘And neither a faasiq (i.e. it is not permissible for a woman to travel with a faasiq mahram). This includes her husband and (any) mahram.”
Shaami states: “… On account of not safeguarding her. The fassiq is one who lacks honour. It is the same even if he happens to be the husband.”
Since the fassiq mahram will not execute the function of safeguarding the woman’s honour and hijaab as imposed by the Shariah, travelling with him is not permissible. Thus, on account of the fisq of a mahram, a woman is not allowed by the Shariah to go on a journey with such a mahram.
A father-in-law too is not an adequate mahram for a woman going for Hajj or on any other journey. Even if the father-in-law is not a faasiq, the element of shahwat is a fitnah. A woman may therefore not go in the company or her father-in-law on a journey.