Manner of conveying Esaal-e-Sawaab When visiting the grave
When visiting the grave of a person one should behave in the manner one behaved when this person was alive. If one would normally sit close to him then one should go close; and if one would sit at a distance then one should also stand at a distance. The correct method of visiting the grave is to stand in front of the grave with your back facing the qiblah.(i.e. if there is sufficient space).
First recite durood shareef three times, thereafter recite the four quls three times, Surah Faatiha three times and thereafter three times durood shareef. If you have sufficient time, recite Surah Yaseen and Surah Muzzammil. Also recite Surah Ikhlaas eleven times. “When Hadhrat Moulana Thaanwi þpassed away, Hadhrat Moulana Madani رحمه الله was in prison. After being released he went to Thanabawan. It was the day of Jumuah and
I accompanied Hadhrat Madani رحمه الله
When he reached the graveyard, he removed his shoes and walked barefooted
Source: Hadhrat Moulana Maseehullah رحمه الله